Opinion

Perfectionism Can Paralyze Potential 

Over the years, I’ve recognized times when my desire to do something perfectly held me back from even trying to pursue a good idea. How many times have you felt paralyzed because you wondered whether you could do a good job—or even be perfect at it? Thinking you always have to be perfect can prevent you from reaching your true potential. Many of us never get out of the gate because we’re too afraid of failing, so we don’t even begin something we’ve been dreaming of for years. 

Ask Dr. Jeanette™ Success on “The Way”™  Hello, Miracle! 

Often, we think of healing only in the context of sickness—such as addiction, broken bones, surgery, mental anxiety, or domestic relationships. However, healing is not only related to illness. Any condition, whether physical or otherwise abnormal but curable, can provide an opportunity for healing.  

Remembering the Miracle of Our Mother: Gratefully Offering Sacred Words and Water 

In this Black History Month II: Women Focus, I reach back to retrieve and share a hallowed homage to my mother, our mother, righteous representative of the sacred history, expansive humanity and audacious hope of our people.   It is a special message for both Mother’s Day and every day, first delivered at our Sunday Soul Session and dedicated to all our mothers, but especially to my mother, our mother, the mother I share with our brothers and sisters.   Indeed, I especially think of her in these difficult, dangerous and demanding times, times of severe and sustained testing and of increased

It’s not the Drugs, It’s Who Gets to Benefit from Them 

America launched the so-called War on Drugs in 1971 under our other formal pardoned criminal and chief Richard Nixon, declaring drugs to be “public enemy number one” which we all know was really the beginning of the war on Black people by imprisoning millions, that’s right millions of people, addicted to drugs with its major focus on Black people. 

Why I’m Black First

I don’t know how many of you saw that clown show masquerading as a presidential address coming from America’s felon and chief last week, but please let me bring you up to speed.

You Do Not Have to Be Blooming to Be Growing 

This past weekend, I had the opportunity to spend quality time with my eldest grandson. He is currently taking jiu-jitsu, and I watched as he methodically demonstrated his skills, concentration and formation.  
What I found interesting was the name of the place where he takes his lessons—Evolve.   

Lifting Up Louise Little, Mother of Malcolm X: A Mother-Son Message of Resistance to the World – Part 2.  

In discussing Nana Louise Little’s multifaceted and highly formative message to Haji Malcolm which he then gave the world, I began with the lesson of resistance and resilience because it is a lesson that infuses and informs every other aspect of her comprehensive, compelling and committed teaching. Indeed, in the next lesson, resistance and the resilience are required for it to develop and flourish and fulfill its most essential function, that is to say to protect, promote and enhance life and bring good in the world.  

It’s Okay to be Black First    

Can we have an honest adult conversation about what’s going on in this country and the world?  I think it’s time for us to be honest with each other and talk to each other as adults, not like little children.   

Feed Fiber to Your Miracle 

We know our miracle cannot eat fiber, right? However, there are key ingredients needed to navigate the path toward reaching your miracle.  Joseph did not know miracles were waiting to happen in his life. He faced tremendous obstacles. When he shared his dreams with his brothers—who were hateful and could not speak kindly to him—he didn’t realize that the way was being paved for his miracle. Joseph was innocent and unaware of the depth of his brothers’ hatred. Who would think that they harbored such diabolical thoughts? Yet, they plotted to murder him.  Joseph would not have imagined that a

You Do Not Have to Be Blooming to Be Growing 

This past weekend, I had the opportunity to spend quality time with my eldest grandson. He is currently taking jiu-jitsu, and I watched him methodically demonstrate his skills, concentration, and formation. What I found interesting was the name of the place where he takes his lessons—Evolve. 

Lifting Up Louise Little, Mother of Malcolm X:  A Mother-Son Message of Resistance to the World – Part 1 

As we move from February, the month of the martyrdom of Nana Haji Malcolm X and into the month of March, I want to lift up his mother, Nana Louise Langdon Little (January 2, 1894, to December 15, 1989), womanist, activist intellectual, nationalist, pan-Africanist, organizer, freedom fighter, and mother, most notably of Haji Malcolm X. Indeed, she offered him and us all a model to emulate and a mirror by which we can measure ourselves as we make our way and work our will for good in the world.  

Why The Devil Don’t Scare Me

We came together to reinforce the beauty of Black-on-Black love and to take a break from all the white-on-white crime we see daily in the news.

Don’t Let the Dragon Kill Your Dream! 

It was around 1727 B.C. when we read about Joseph and his triumphs over fear. There were many times over long periods when Joseph could have given up. Looking back to his youth, around seventeen years old (Genesis 37:1), we notice his brothers—sons of Bilhah and sons of Zilpah, who were from his father’s wives and servants. This expanded family was accepted during that time period, and God allowed it.