Each day when I rise and open my eyes, I am amazed by all the rollbacks the current administration continues to make. Bit by bit, they are trying to strip away our history and the various accomplishments African Americans have contributed not only to our country but to the world.
With the stroke of a pen, they have attempted to erase significant observances such as Black History Month, Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.’s holiday, and Juneteenth, to name just a few. Unfortunately, many private sectors are following the lead of what the public (federal government) sector is doing, which will ultimately harm America and our history.
I want to personally thank all the corporations that are still honoring DEI and the individuals who have contributed to this great land. No one can dictate what we should or shouldn’t do, what we should believe or not believe, or how we should celebrate our heritage and holidays.
I am a child of the 1960s. I grew up with a grandmother who fled the South to come West in hopes of building a better life not only for herself but also for her children and grandchildren. She instilled in us the importance of supporting the church and community-based organizations from a young age.
I have personally witnessed the Civil Rights Movement, the deaths of Dr. King and Malcolm X, and I have met trailblazers such as Rosa Parks, Dr. Dorothy Height, Harry Belafonte, Martin Luther King III, and so many more throughout my career.
I am proud to have played a role, even if small, with historical organizations such as the Southern Christian Leadership Conference of Los Angeles, the NAACP, the Urban League, and women’s organizations like the National Council of Negro Women and Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Incorporated.
Ella Fitzgerald and Louis Armstrong sang a song called, “They Can’t Take That Away From Me.” When I think about the numerous changes we are experiencing almost daily, I can hardly catch my breath, but one thing I know is that amidst all the chaos, we must stand strong and hold onto our heritage.
We have to support organizations and groups that work hard every day to ensure our voices are heard and that our accomplishments and achievements are not overlooked just because someone claims they didn’t happen or that we shouldn’t focus on them. Now more than ever, we need to shine a bright light on the facts and place our support where we can. We owe it to the generations that follow us to ensure they know what their ancestors achieved, as well as what they sacrificed and fought for.
As a grandmother, I recognize my duty to share the narrative of my life and the history of our family so that they can pass it on to their children. Information and truth cannot be taken away from us, but they can be stifled if we aren’t willing to keep the light burning.
As we continue to navigate this new political landscape, we must not let the words of others about our community alter how we do things. Do not allow anyone to intimidate you into not celebrating your heritage. Seek out events occurring this month and make it a point to participate in the celebration.
Also, consider making a donation to a museum or organization that works tirelessly to preserve our history. Start an oral and written project in your own family where you interview the oldest member to document your personal history and try to find unique photos that tell the story of your family and their journey. Those who come after you will be grateful that you did.
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