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Fallen 14-Year-Old Is Remembered at Rancho Cienega Sports Complex
By By E. Mesiyah McGinnis, Staff Writer
Published November 2, 2017

(L) Rancho baseball Coach Chris Cowser and Tony Parham hold up 14- year-old Deangelo’s commemorative photo in Dodger blue, as Kamani Black, deputy, Los Angeles City Council, speaks to Deangelo’s supporters during his memorial on October, 27, 2017. (photo E. Mesiyah McGinnis)

On October 20, at only 14 years of age, Deangelo “Dee Dee” Parham suddenly passed of an enlarged heart. Although he lived in Los Angeles, he was in Alabama at the time of his passing; his death was felt miles away as the community of mourners came out to Rancho Cienega Sports Complex, in South Los Angeles, to pay their final respects and share in the loss of a great friend. Dee Dee was the younger brother of Antonio Chatmon and Tony Parham, local kids, who made names for themselves as elite athletes at Rancho, Dorsey High school and beyond. Dee Dee was the youngest family member following in his big brother’s legacy. He was very much loved by his high school friends, park community and family.

Antonio welcomed and thanked the packed crowd for attending his little brother’s memorial, held in the basketball gymnasium. According to Antonio, Dee Dee practically grew up at the park. He loved being at Rancho and participating in the sports programs. “He was what coaches call a ‘Rancho Park Rat’,” he said. The memorial was also a chance for his friends and extended family to celebrate his life. The love and support that was shown was overwhelming, with a diverse group coming to share in sacred and funny memories. Pastor Johnson, who prayed, asking God for understanding, delivered the message of death never being easy. “No matter how saved you might be, death is never easy .. especially when a young person’s life is taken,” said Pastor Johnson. “We better find God. God may not take the pain away, but God will give you grace.”

Pastor Johnson speaks to young mourners of the passing of Deangelo Parham at Rancho Cienaga Park, on October 27, 2017. (photo E. Mesiyah McGinnis / LA Sentinel)

Kamani Black, deputy, Los Angeles City Council, spoke of his fond memories of Dee Dee and read a heartfelt letter, sent from the Dodger organization. “We are incredibly saddened to hear of the sudden death of Deangelo … we are honored to call him a member of the Dodgers Foundation family and are grateful baseball placed so much joy in his heart, Kamani read. He then shared with the audience that the Dodger Foundation was providing a donation of $2,500 in hopes of assisting with the family’s funeral expenses. Black also shared with the grateful audience a commemorative photograph of Deangelo in his Dodger uniform; he also revealed the City Council’s plan to request that Los Angeles Recreation and Parks rename Diamond 4 in Deangelo’s name.

“Dee Dee’s” friends share fond memories at his memorial. (photo E. Mesiyah McGinnis / LA Sentinel)

Deangelo’s high school friends spoke highly of him, and other peers sang or just shared fun stories to pay their last respects to their fallen friend. Older brother, Tony Parham delivered heartfelt words of reflection, and thanks Deangelo’s friends for being so supportive of him. “My little brother, you were more than my brother, you were my friend,” he recited. “My little brother, my little brother, handsome cause you look like me, my little brother, when I lost you, I lost a part of me.” Antonio reflected, “he was a very talented person who had yet to reach his full potential. He made such an impact in his short time here and I wish I had a chance to talk to him one last time,” he said.After the memorial, Dee Dee’s Friends and family moved to take a group photo on Diamond 4, which will soon be named in Deangelo’s honor. “My brother’s heart was larger than his small body could handle. May you rest in heaven, your big brother,’ said Antonio.

The Parham and Chatmon family celebrate the life of Deangelo Parham, on Diamond 4 at Rancho Cienaga Sports Complex. (Photo E. Mesiyah McGinnis / LA Sentinel)

“Every person in his family was an athlete. Whenever we were choosing teams, Dee Dee was always the first kid on my list. On behalf of Rancho Cienaga Park, we love Dee Dee and the Chatmon and Parham family,” said Recreation Coordinator Phillip Wiley. According to Wiley, the kids and parents of Rancho are a family; they celebrate the good times and comfort one another during the challenging times. “We are family at Rancho.”

After the memorial, Dee Dee’s Friends and family moved to take a group photo on Diamond 4, which will soon be named in Deangelo’s honor. “My brother’s heart was larger than his small body could handle. May you rest in heaven, your big brother,’ said Antonio. (photo E. Mesiyah McGinnis / LA Sentinel)


Additional Photos by E. Mesiyah McGinnis – LA Sentinel



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