Trust is a fragile yet powerful emotion that many struggle to embrace. The days when leaders inspired us with their integrity and vision often feel like a distant memory. Too frequently, leaders say what they believe people want to hear, and many follow without question.
However, true leadership—the kind that fosters trust—requires consistency, reliability, and integrity. People need to feel they can depend on you, especially in moments of vulnerability. Such individuals are rare, and I feel blessed to have known one: Carl Ballton.
As I was working on this article, I received the heartbreaking news of Carl’s passing. His death caused me to pause and reflect, shifting the focus of my writing to honor his remarkable life. While I did not know the details surrounding his passing, what mattered most was the undeniable impact he had on so many lives.
Carl was a pillar of strength, a quiet force whose presence could be felt the moment he entered a room. He exemplified what it meant to be a devoted follower of Christ, a loving husband, father, grandfather, and a loyal friend. Those who knew him shared a common sentiment—he was a generous man who always took the time to listen, uplift, and lend a helping hand. Carl was an inspiration, a man of deep trustworthiness and unwavering kindness.
Reflecting on Carl’s life leads me to think about the legacy I hope to leave. I want to inspire others to believe in themselves, to pursue their dreams no matter what stage of life they are in. The real question we must ask ourselves is: Are we living authentically? Do we lead with sincerity? Do we genuinely care for others? Are we empathetic? Do we listen? Most importantly, do we give people hope?
My father embodied these questions throughout his life. He wore many hats and, in his younger years, walked a wayward path. However, after suffering a heart attack, he transformed his life and became a pastor, dedicating himself to helping others.
He founded a nonprofit called Hope and Help, which not only provided tangible assistance but also instilled hope for the future. His journey demonstrated that no matter one’s past, change is possible, and a life of purpose can be reclaimed. His story inspired many to believe in their potential and strive for better.
One of the most significant traits that builds trust and inspires others is empathy—the ability to put oneself in another’s shoes. Empathy strengthens relationships and fosters compassion. Both Carl Ballton and my father embodied this quality, touching countless lives with their kindness and generosity.
Their examples challenge us to consider: Are we doing the necessary work today to ensure we leave the legacy we desire? Trust and inspiration are not built overnight; they are cultivated over time through consistent actions and genuine care for others.
Napoleon Bonaparte once said, “A leader is a dealer in hope.” Are you helping others pursue excellence? That is where hope is born. I am deeply grateful for those who selflessly serve others, making our world a better place, one act of kindness at a time. It is through giving that we truly find purpose.
Thank you, Carl, for being a beacon of light in a sometimes-dark world. The truth is, we all have the power to be lights if we choose. The choice is ours to make.
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Visit www.WendyGladney.com and www.forgivingforliving.org to learn more. Wendy is a life strategist, coach, consultant, author, and speaker.
