The time we have here on Earth can be relatively short. Recently, I was at my daughter’s house, helping care for my precious little granddaughter. We talked about the saying, long are the days, but short are the years — meaning that, at times, when we’re dealing with daily challenges, like caring for a newborn, the days and nights can seem long. Yet, in the blink of an eye, time passes, and our children grow up so fast.
The same holds true when we’re faced with life’s tragedies. In the midst of it, the moment can feel endless. But we must hold on to hope that this too shall pass, and together, we will make it through. If God brings us to it, He will see us through it. We must hold on and never give up.
As we all know, Southern Californians have been under siege by the wildfires that have swept across the Southland. It seems that, as soon as we blink, the fires spread faster than we can catch our breath. I personally know nearly 15 families in the Altadena area affected by the fires, and most have lost everything. It’s hard to even imagine the devastation.
We see images on the news, but until you witness it firsthand, you cannot fully comprehend what these families are enduring. I have friends and colleagues whose families have lived in homes for generations, only to see those homes reduced to rubble and ash in the blink of an eye. Many now wonder if and how they will rebuild.
For those of us who have been spared, we must not only help by donating, sharing resources, and keeping them in prayer, but also ensure our own families are prepared should disaster strike.
Since the fires began here in Southern California, many have posted emergency preparedness lists. Whether it’s a fire, earthquake, or another emergency, we all need to prepare. I know most of us feel it would never happen to us but let me tell you: whether rich or poor, Black or white, eastside, westside, southside, or northside, none of us are exempt.
We have no excuse to delay doing what’s important. We owe it not only to our families, but also to those who have lost everything, to learn from their experience. I challenge you to start today. Make 2025 the year you get as much in order as possible.
If you’re unsure where to begin, start by getting a fireproof container or box. Be sure to include the following: legal documents such as your will, trust, birth and death certificates, divorce papers, marriage license, passports, driver’s license, insurance documents, social security card, medical information, power of attorney, deeds to property and vehicles, tax returns, and a video or photos of your home’s contents. At the very least, make copies of these items and store them in a container you can grab and go.
It’s also crucial to have a personal bag packed in advance with clothes, toiletries, flashlight, water, snacks, and cash in small denominations. If you must evacuate, remember to grab your cell phone and computer, and don’t forget the chargers.
I know it seems like a lot to remember, but if you make a list and start preparing ahead of time, you’ll be able to move quickly when the need arises. Things can change in the blink of an eye. Dig your well before you need the water.
Losing property and precious memories is devastating, but if we have our lives and the support of friends and loved ones, God will guide us as we rebuild.
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Wendy is a life strategist, coach, consultant, author, and speaker.
